Is Your Child Gifted? The Signs Most Parents Miss in 2025

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"Gifted" doesn’t mean what you think.

What comes to mind when you hear the words "gifted" and "talented"?

A math whiz?
A voracious reader?
A kid who stacks up awards and test scores?

That might be part of it.
But it’s not the whole story.

If we define gifted and talented only by academic performance, we miss the deeper gifts that shape the world.

I've spent 20+ years in education—as an educator, curriculum designer, startup founder, senior exec in EdTech, and now an investor.

But more than any role or credential, I'm a dad.

And like many of you, I’m just trying (my best!) to raise curious, kind, resilient kids in a world that’s loud, fast, and full of mixed messages about what’s “best” for them.

We’ve all heard stories of kids who never fit the gifted label—kids who struggled in school, were overlooked, underestimated—but who went on to change the world.

Let me tell you about one of them.

The Boy Everyone Overlooked

He struggled to read. Hated tests. Dropped out of high school at 16.

No awards. No straight A’s. No signs of brilliance—at least, not by school standards.

But while others memorized answers, he launched a student magazine.

While classmates were prepping for college, he launched a mail-order record business from a church basement.

By his twenties, he was building a global brand.

That boy was Richard Branson, the visionary founder of Virgin Group!

What Stories Like His Reveal

Stories like Branson's aren't rare. They're just often ignored.
Why? Because our systems aren't built to see them.

And that's the real problem.

When we define giftedness too narrowly, we miss the children whose ideas, actions, and presence change the world—not just through intellect, but through courage, creativity, and compassion.

Why the Old Definition No Longer Fits

Academic giftedness still matters. But it's no longer enough.

The world has changed. Radically.

In the Industrial Age, society needed uniformity—engineers, doctors, and scientists. So we built schools that sorted kids by academic performance and test scores.

Today, in the age of AI and rapid change, the world doesn't just need knowledge. It needs vision, creativity, empathy, resilience, and the courage to lead with them.

What “Gifted Talented” Needs to Mean Now

Being gifted and talented must reflect the strengths we need in society.

That's the idea behind the Comprehensive Framework for Gifts & Talents:

L – Leadership: vision, inspiration, mobilization
E – Entrepreneurial: resourcefulness, initiative, adaptability
A – Artistic: imagination, expression, spotlight
D – Digital: computation, engineering, automation
S – Social: awareness, empathy, intercultural competence
H – Humanity: compassion, service, advocacy
I – Intellectual: problem-solving, communication, exploration
P – Physical: agility, endurance, excellence

No child is meant to master all eight!

The framework isn't a checklist. It's a compass—a whole-child framework that helps us see the many ways a child can be gifted, not just in school, but in life.

Some kids shine through academics. Others through storytelling, design, advocacy, debate, or bold questions no one else dares ask.

All of it is brilliance.
And all of it deserves to be seen, nurtured, and celebrated.

Defining Gifted and Talented Today

At GiftedTalented.com, we believe in clear, human-centered definitions:

• Gifted means blessed with natural-born potential—the seeds of greatness, creativity, leadership, or compassion that are already there.
• Talented means advanced in skills that can uplift humanity—where potential has been developed into action that benefits others.

Giftedness is the starting point. Talent is the fruit.
Both need care, vision, and encouragement to truly flourish.

Why This Redefinition Matters

Outdated definitions hurt both high achievers and divergent thinkers.

• The high achievers carry the weight of perfectionism and pressure.
• The divergent thinkers are dismissed because they don’t fit the mold.

One hears: "Your worth is your grades."
The other: "You don’t have gifts that matter."

That’s how brilliance gets buried.
But it doesn't have to be.

Not Every Child is Gifted in the Same Way

Not every child qualifies as “gifted talented.”
It's still rare. It’s still distinct.
But our definition has been too narrow for too long.

By broadening the scope—not lowering the bar—we make space to discover brilliance where we weren’t looking before.

In creativity. In leadership. In empathy. In vision.
In the very traits the future will depend on.

Every child has potential.
But some children have gifts and talents that, if seen and nurtured well, can shape the future.

It’s our job not to hand out gold stars, but to pay attention.
To notice.
To nurture.
To elevate.

Let’s unlock their genius.
Let’s cultivate it.
And let’s build a world where the full range of gifts and talents can be recognized, developed, and celebrated.

Key Takeaways for Rethinking Giftedness in 2025

• Giftedness isn’t always visible in grades, scores, or school praise.
• Today's world needs brilliance beyond academics.
• Look for signs of vision, empathy, and innovation, not just IQ.
• Your child’s unique spark might not fit the mold—and that’s the point.
• Every child has potential. Some need a broader lens to be truly seen.

Want to Go Deeper?

Read Part 2: How to Raise a Gifted Child—Without Relying on Schools →